So I think I’m a little mad at my father. If you read my blog you know I grew up and he was a Baptist pastor most of my life.
Last night my mom and dad came to my daughter’s softball game. They sat pretty much next to my soon to be ex wife and her boyfriend.
That’s understandable because my mom sits in that same location each time she comes in her own chair that she brings, it is hard for her to get around.
So when my STBX gets up to leave in the 4th inning –she has to wake up at 4:00 a.m., she announces cause she’s working now- surprise!
My dad jokes with her and says “you’re not gonna stay for the nail biter”, my daughter was losing 16 to 1.
And the more I think about it that just rubs me the wrong way. He just jovially jokes around with her like she did not upend my life and my children’s lives. Like she’s not there with the guy she cheated with.
Dad, you direspected me big time.
The right/wrong/sin standards you profess to adhere don’t come into play for me.
I’m at work I really don’t have time to go into this issue. Suffice it to stay there was a time when my dad was very rude to my sister’s new boyfriend– wouldn’t even shake his hand.
Would that make you mad, irritated, upset?
It has been in the back of my mind today and just— Things like this make me wanna move now not wait 2 years so my daughter can finish college.